Self-compassion applied to performance
High Standards without Self-Criticism
Excellence without burnout
Capable teams where mistakes stay hidden until they can’t be, deliveries slip in search of the perfect version and, after a failure, performance stays low for days. The cost shows up as rework, postponed decisions and good people wearing out.
Keeping standards high without fear of failure as the engine — and recovering faster after a mistake. Research on self-compassion links it to greater intrinsic motivation and less paralysing perfectionism, without lower standards. It doesn’t lower the bar: it lowers the punishment.
6 sessions of 2h30 · groups of 8 to 12 · in person (online possible from session 2)
Request a proposalSix sessions
- The engine you are running on
- What self-criticism does well — and where it stops paying off
- Failing and coming back: responding to mistakes, practised on real, anonymised cases
- Standards without punishment
- The firm side: setting limits, asking for conditions, saying the hard thing
- Sustaining it: a personal 90-day plan and a team agreement on how mistakes are discussed
Between sessions, a 5–8 minute daily micro-practice. A consolidation session eight weeks after the end.
What it isn’t
It isn’t therapy, time management or positive thinking. It assesses no one and produces no information for performance reviews.

